When Communication Skills Aren’t Enough…
Learn how to identify and heal the unresolved trauma, attachment wounds, and nervous system patterns driving recurring relationship conflict.
This specialty workshop teaches clinicians how to integrate Brainspotting, the Gottman Method, nervous system regulation, and structured dialogue into one flexible clinical model that creates deeper, more lasting relational healing.
Is This Workshop for You?
This workshop is designed for:
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Brainspotting Practitioners
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Brainspotting Consultants-in-Training
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Couples Therapists
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Mental Health Clinicians
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Relationship Coaches interested in nervous system-informed couples work
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking…
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“They understand the communication skills…so why do they keep having the same fight?”
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“When do I teach? When do I dialogue? When do I Brainspot?”
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“How do I safely integrate Brainspotting into couples therapy?”
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“How do I know if a couple is ready for Brainspotting?”
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“How do I work with trauma without losing the relationship?”
…this workshop was designed for you.
What You’ll Learn
Integrate Brainspotting into Couples Therapy with Confidence
Learn a flexible four-layer model that combines nervous system regulation, Gottman relationship science, structured dialogue, and Brainspotting.
Master Dual Attunement
Learn to simultaneously track two nervous systems, two attachment systems, your therapeutic relationship with each partner, and the relationship itself.
Know When to Educate, Dialogue, Regulate, or Brainspot
Move beyond rigid protocols by learning how to trust attunement, uncertainty, and the unfolding therapeutic process.
Recognize the Deeper Meaning Beneath Conflict
Understand recurring relationship conflict through the lens of developmental trauma, attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and younger parts rather than simply communication problems.
Help Couples Move from Protection to Healing
Guide couples toward increased regulation, empathy, secure attachment, emotional intimacy, and lasting relational change.
What Makes This Workshop Different?
This is not simply Gottman or simply Brainspotting.
This is an integrative model that teaches clinicians how to move fluidly between:
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Nervous System Regulation
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Gottman Relationship Science
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Structured Dialogue
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Brainspotting
Rather than following a rigid protocol, clinicians learn to trust dual attunement, uncertainty, and the relationship itself to determine the clinical pathway.
A Flexible Four-Layer Model
Layer One
Nervous System Reset & Education
Layer two
The Gottman Sound Relationship House
Layer three
Dialogue Around Perpetual Conflict
Layer four
Brainspotting Integration
The four layers provide a conceptual framework, not a treatment protocol. Depending on the needs of the couple, clinicians learn when to educate, regulate, dialogue, process trauma, or simply hold therapeutic space.
Workshop Outcomes
After completing this workshop, participants will be able to:
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Confidently integrate Brainspotting into couples therapy.
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Recognize when conflict reflects nervous system dysregulation, attachment wounds, or developmental trauma.
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Create relational safety before trauma processing.
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Master advanced dual attunement with two partners and one relationship.
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Help couples transform recurring conflict into empathy, secure attachment, and healing.
The Philosophy Behind the Model
The therapeutic relationship remains the constant.
The clinical pathway remains adaptive.
Safety, trust, and attunement, not protocol, determine the course of treatment.
Healing occurs when clinicians trust the brain’s innate capacity to heal while creating the conditions for both partners and the relationship itself to reveal what is most needed.
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Join Me
Whether you are an experienced Brainspotting practitioner or a clinician seeking a deeper, more neurobiologically informed approach to couples therapy, this workshop will provide practical tools, conceptual clarity, and a flexible framework that can immediately be integrated into your clinical practice.
PAYMENT & INSURANCE
Crossings Health, LLC is a private-pay practice. We are out of network with all insurance plans.
Payment is due at the time of service. Upon request, we provide a detailed superbill that you may submit directly to your insurance company for possible out-of-network reimbursement. Reimbursement is determined by your individual insurance plan.
For added flexibility, we also accept CareCredit for therapy services. You can learn more or apply directly through the CareCredit website.
Industry Standard
Initial Consultation
45-60 minutes
Price
$400
Regular Sessions
55 minutes
Price
$250-310
Safe & Sound Protocol
NOT INCLUDED
Rest & Restore Protocol
NOT INCLUDED
Gottman Connect Evaluation & Reevaluation for couples
NOT INCLUDED
Extended Session Times
NOT INCLUDED
Crossings Health
Initial Consultation
75 minutes
Price
$485
Regular Sessions
75 minutes
Price
$385
Safe & Sound Protocol
Unlimited Use
Rest & Restore Protocol
Unlimited Use
Gottman Connect Evaluation & Reevaluation for couples
INCLUDED
Extended Session Times
INCLUDED
Serving the Pacific Northwest
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At Crossings Health, we are available to residents of Alaska, Washington, Oregon and Idaho.
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